Uh-oh! It looks like our listener is in a sticky situation. She cheated on her boyfriend with her coworker. To make matters worse, she just found out that she’s pregnant!
Should she come clean and tell her boyfriend there’s a possibility he’s not the father?
Here’s her email to us:
Hello Bert Show,
I’ve gotten myself in a little pickle and now I’m confused. PLEASE HELP. I took a new job in early February just to try something new. Now mind you, I’m not the type to mess with or deal with any of my co-workers (NASTY) . Well, I fell pretty hard for one of them, he who must not be named 🙂 Everything was going great until I found out he had a GIRLFRIEND. That girlfriend (#1) found out about us only because he used his debit card for the room, let your mind run free 🙂 He started living with me for a very short time, until we had a disagreement and he left, moving in with a brand new Girlfriend (#2). That’s when me and my boyfriend of 4 years got right back together. He who must not be named and I have been Sneaking and Freaking on the regular.
A couple of weeks ago I went to the OBGYN to get my yearly and set a date to get my tubes tied, NO MORE KIDS FOR ME!!!! Low and behold, the RN looked at me and said “You’re PREGNANT” OMFG!!!! Mind you I’m living with my boyfriend of 4 years and he thinks i’m pregnant with his child.. PLEASE tell me… Should I go ahead and tell him that it’s a great possibility that he’s not the father or should I wait until I get a little farther in my pregnancy? I just don’t want to wait until the end and they both end up in the delivery room at the same time and I’m having to explain myself…..
PS – The boyfriend of 4 years has not been all that Honest in his ways, if you know what I mean….