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I know the timing of this is awkward, but I have to be honest and say my heart doesn’t feel the way it used to. I feel I owe you that. We’ve had so many amazing ________(days/weeks/hours) together that I don’t want to disrespect you by pretending to be invested in a relationship I don’t feel connected to anymore. It’s not anything you’ve done. But the brutal truth is I feel disconnected and my feelings have changed. I have struggled with this decision because you do mean so much to me. But I also don’t want to mislead you or try to stay in a relationship I don’t feel strongly about. This isn’t a you thing or a me thing. There’s no blame to go around. But I can’t deny my feelings so I’ve made the hard decision to move on from our relationship. I care about you deeply and if you’re confused or need more answers I’m open to trying to make more sense of this for you. I’m hoping with the history we have we can remain friends eventually and both grow from our time together.
Dear (Insert Name of Person Who Wronged You),I looked in the mirror today and realized something. I deserve better. I deserve better than this and I deserve better than you.You never valued us and you certainly never valued me. Remember that time you (insert that time here). And what about when you (insert that other time there.) And for some reason I stuck around. I think I was blinded by your false promises of change. But I’ve come to realize, you’re never going to change.You promised you would stop (insert that thing they promised they would stop doing). You promised you would (insert that thing they promised they would do but never did.)I know this will come as a shock to you. And that’s on me for allowing you to walk all over me for (insert amount of time) and never speaking up for myself. That all changes today. I have a voice and my voice is saying we’re through.I do want to thank you, though. It was your lack of love that enabled me to love myself.Before you find out from someone else, I thought I should tell you I’ve met someone new. I hope you can be happy for Pete Davidson and me.No longer yours,(insert your name here)
I know they say this is better to do in person but they say a lot of things I don’t agree with. Speaking of “they,” “they,” also say that sometimes two people grow apart and sometimes love is just a season. And a lot like the Dallas Cowboys every year, our season ended a little quicker than we anticipated. I don’t know who they are but I know who this is and it’s ain’t us. Now before you get all sad, which is understandable, I want you to know it’s not you, it’s me, I’m the problem, it’s me. And I know this to be true because at tea time, everybody agrees. So you can do better, which is also something “they” say that I don’t believe but I’m hopeful. I’ve enjoyed all the time we have spent with each other, I’m just not interested in spending anymore. Our relationship has become a lot like doing push ups on your knees, it looks good and it feels like something but we both know we are faking it. You deserve more, like the world or maybe just a world, without me in it. Focus on you and your family and all the wonderful memories y’all will create next week but I need time and space, to think about me, myself and I, that’s all I got in the end, that’s what I found out and it ain’t no need to cry, I took a vow that from now on, I’ma be my own best Friend.