She just found out her fiancé cheated on her a year ago from his mistress. She sent her screenshots of their conversations. But when she confronted her fiancé, he denied cheating.
Now she’s considering canceling the wedding. Should she?
Here’s her email to us:
Good morning Bert Show,
I need some help, my fiance and I have been together for 2 years. We are supposed to be getting married next June. I recently found out that my fiance video chatted with another woman a few months into our relationship. First he sent her nudes, then video chatted with her in an inappropriate manner.
She sent me screenshots of everything, and I am heart broken. This is a woman he had an intimate relationship with just before we dated. He denies ALL of it, saying he does NOT recall this, even though I showed him everything. I’ve gone through his phone, in front of him, and I’ve seen additional messages to a second woman that I feel are inappropriate.
He feels I’m being too dramatic, and that it was nothing. I don’t know if I can go through with the wedding.
Yes, the video chat happened over a year ago, and the inappropriate messages to the SECOND woman were over a year ago too. Am I being overly sensitive, or am I right for feeling hurt? Is it a mistake to marry someone who would lie and keep lying about such a big issue (in my opinion).
Please help!
P.s. I’ve been cheated on in the past and he knew that.