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She DESPISES her boyfriend’s best friend for a list of reasons! He tried to break up her relationship, and she isn’t over it. Her boyfriend wants her to forgive him, but she doesn’t think she can move past it.
What should she do?
Here’s her email:
Hi Bert Show,
I really hope I won’t be one of those people that thinks they are in the right, but ultimately everyone hates them and the comments about me are nasty, BUT here goes.
I need advice. I hate my boyfriend’s best friend. We started dating about 3 years ago, and a little over a year ago, I moved to be with him after doing long-distance before. I moved 1000 miles away from home for him. When I first met his friend, who he met after we started dating, we got along very well, and I liked him and his girlfriend of 7 years a lot. Then they broke up, and things turned for the worst.
His friend, let’s call him, CHAD… was using my boyfriend as a crutch and always wanted him to go out with him because he was lonely. They rarely hung out when Chad had a girlfriend, so this was different. Shortly after my boyfriend and I started having troubles and took a break….while still living together. It was very difficult and probably the hardest time of my life. This is where my hatred for Chad comes in. He started keeping my boyfriend out super late anytime he could despite me being alone in a state where I knew no one. He was supposed to be my friend too, and any time I confided in him, he would just tell my boyfriend. I can’t really fault him for that. What’s worse is he sent my boyfriend fake texts that I had sent pictures to other guys, with zero proof since it was a lie. Now my boyfriend and I are in an amazing place, but I don’t want anything to do with Chad. Seeing him just makes me think of all the things he did to my relationship, and I can barely be in the same room with him for more than 5 minutes. My boyfriend is understanding but wants me to try and forgive him.
I could literally write a book with my hatred for this guy. I guess you could say, I’m not over it 🙁
Thank you for any advice,
Mad at Chad
P.S Moe, I am a Gemini and he is a Virgo so….yeah…you get it.