Our listener is worried about her husband attending her brother’s bachelor party this weekend. Why? Because she has a past with a few of the groomsmen, and she’s afraid he’ll start drama with them
What can she do to make sure her husband stays level-headed over the weekend?
Dear Bert Show,
Thanks so much for reading my email, I am a p1 and I love y’all so much. I listen daily to the podcast.
Now that we have that out of the way, let me set the scene.
My husband is my brother’s best friend from childhood. Let’s call my brother Carl and my husband Henry.
My family moved here in the year 2000. When we moved I was 5 years old and my brother was 12.
Carl made best friends with Henry. And I mean BEST FRIENDS. So I have known Henry since I was 5 years old. Henry and I are now married. Cute love story… but that’s not the point of this email.
My brother, Carl, is getting married in June. Henry, my husband, is a groomsman, Along with a few other groomsmen that were friends with my brother and my husband in high school.
I played piano with one of the other groomsmen and fiddled with another… if that’s what you’d call it. ( I can hear Davi laughing now.) And all of these guys are friends from high school, my husband and brother included.
My brother hangs out with them regularly, my husband does not.
My husband knows all about what has gone down with the other men in the wedding party.
HERE IS THE PROBLEM!!
He is going on the bachelor weekend party this Friday, and these men are going to be there. I’m so worried that he is going to freak out and show his ass at this bachelor party because he has to be around these 2 men that he KNOWS has had some sort of relations with me, his wife, and if I’m being honest he is a VERY jealous man. But I also wouldn’t blame him for being upset because if roles were reversed, I would be really upset too.
I appreciate any advice. I’m not sure you can help, but I can update y’all with the drama that I KNOW will unfold this weekend.
Love you all,
Ps: Mama KK please make me feel better about the situation lol