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Here’s an email we got from a listener that is feeling insecure. Her husband doesn’t post her on his Instgram page like he use to.
Hope you’re doing well. I have a concern and I want to know if I’m the only one. My husband doesn’t post me on social media and it makes me feel extremely insecure. When we first started dating, he always posted me and would shove pictures of me in people’s faces when they asked if he had a girlfriend.
That has since changed. We also have an almost 2 year old daughter and I gained weight during the pregnancy and have had a hard time getting used to my new body… it seems like the pictures stopped around that time too.
I started feeling ashamed and started making changes but he still doesn’t post me. I beg, I’ve told him, I’ve even told him I’m okay with a pity post. I just crave the feeling of being shown off and I don’t know how to make him understand that it’s not just as simple as “caring about what people think”. He is a firm believer in instagram being a highlight reel and I want to feel like a highlight.
I don’t think there’s infidelity but it definitely feels like he’s ashamed of me.
Am I alone here?