Our listener is in a strange situation, and she needs some advice. The guy she’s been dating for a month hasn’t made any moves on her!
They instantly connected online and see each other all the time. So why hasn’t he kissed her yet?
Here’s her email:
Can ya’ll give me your opinions ‘cause I’m not sure what’s going on here. I’ve been dating a guy (let’s call him Jason) for about a month. It actually may be a little bit over a month. We met online and instantly seemed to have a lot of chemistry. We’ve been seeing each other multiple times a week ever since then.
It’s definitely not a friend situation. I mean we hold hands. He puts his arm around me and he pays almost every time we go out even if I insist. So, I’m pretty sure he likes me. But here’s where things get weird, and I’ve never experienced this before.
After over a month, we still have not kissed. I mean, I understand after only a few dates, but after a month??? And we’ve probably seen each other at least 12 to 15 times. There’s been no physical contact beyond beyond handholding. I’m not the kind of girl that makes the first move. That probably sounds lame, but it’s just not my thing.
So I’ve kind of been waiting on him, yet he hasn’t even tried. Has anybody ever experienced this? I probably hold the Guinness book of world records for the longest time you’ve dated somebody without kissing. Should I break up with him? This is weird right?
Chloe
The update
They kissed! But it wasn’t what she expected…